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1. What is a fake friend? A fake friend is someone who plays the role of a friend but uses the relationship as a means to an end. Real friend: Sees you as a goal Fake friend: Sees you as a means to an end This means can be gain, status, fear of loneliness, entertainment, comparison, or emotional nourishment. Important point: A fake friend is not always malicious. Most of the time, they are not even honest with themselves. 2. How can you recognize a fake friend? (Behavioral patterns) A. They are there on good days but disappear on bad days -They are by your side when you are rising -They become silent, distance themselves, or change the subject during difficult times -These people connect with glamour, not with pain. B. Can't sincerely celebrate your successes -Congratulates you, but something is missing in their tone -Immediately shifts the topic to themselves -Drops little digs : “Of course you were lucky...” This jealousy isn't an open attack; it's passive-aggressive. C. ...

 Sadism, in its simplest definition, is the tendency to derive pleasure from another person's pain or to feel pleasure by inflicting pain on others. But this definition is very superficial. Because sadism is not just about being a “violence-loving person.” Sometimes it manifests itself in bloody, physical ways, and sometimes in quiet, psychological, and very sophisticated ways. 1) What exactly is sadism? Sadism takes its name from the writer Marquis de Sade. In his works, pleasure, power, and pain are constantly intertwined. Sadism is a deriving satisfaction from: humiliating others causing them pain intimidating them controlling them embarrassing them But the important point here is this: The sadist uses pain not as an end in itself, but as a means to experience a sense of power. In other words, at the heart of sadism lies not pain , but superiority. 2) The core of sadism: power When a sadist sees the helplessness of the other person, they feel alive. That's why sadism is ofte...